FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions: General

What should I wear?

We hope that you'll take this as an opportunity to dress up, but we want you to feel comfortable and enjoy the evening, so formal attire in the spirit of black-tie is encouraged, not required.

Who can I contact if I have additional questions about the wedding?

If you have any questions about the wedding, accommodations, or logistics, please contact the bride’s mother, Lisa Jeffs. She is happy to help!

Email: lisakjeffs@gmail.com

Cell: 919-906-1573

We want everyone to feel comfortable and informed—please don’t hesitate to get in touch!



What if my address changes?

If you have an address change please reach out to us or edit using our Postable link.

Frequently Asked Questions: Hotel Bookings

Which hotels have special rates or room blocks for the wedding?

We have secured a discounted rate at the Marriott Virginia Beach Oceanfront resort and a hotel block with a reserved rate at The Cavalier. Please see our accommodations page for booking links and further details on how to reserve within these blocks.

Are there other hotels nearby?

Yes! Virginia Beach offers a wide variety of hotels. There are options such as the Embassy Suites directly across the street, as well as many hotels up and down the strip and in Town Center. Guests are welcome to book at any location that best suits their needs.

Do you have room blocks or special rates at the other hotels?

No, we do not have reserved blocks or special rates at hotels other than the Virginia Beach OceanFront Marriott and The Cavalier. Bookings at other hotels will be at standard rates and subject to availability.



Will there be transportation provided from other hotels?

We will not be providing coordinated transportation from hotels outside of our reserved blocks. If you are staying elsewhere, we recommend using Uber or other rideshare services, which are readily available in the area.

Is parking available at the wedding venue?

Parking is limited on site. We strongly encourage guests to use Uber or rideshare services for convenience. If you are staying at the Marriott, The Cavalier, or any nearby hotel, walking or hotel shuttle services may be an option—please check your route and comfort level.

Frequently Asked Questions: Children

Are children invited to the wedding?

We love your little ones and are so excited to have them join us for the weekend! That said, due to limited seating at our ceremony and reception dinner, we are planning those portions of the day as adult-only events with childcare services provided if needed. Children are welcome at all other weekend festivities—and of course, they’re invited to come dance and celebrate with us later in the evening!



What will the kids do during the adult-only parts of the wedding?

We’ve arranged for group babysitting at the hotel during the ceremony and reception so parents can relax and enjoy the evening. To help us plan, we kindly ask that you RSVP in advance with the names and ages of your children if you’d like to take advantage of this option. More details about timing, location, and activities will be shared closer to the date!